Benjamin Ashford|Jessica Alba Shares Heartwarming Insight Into Family Life With Her and Cash Warren’s 3 Kids 

Jessica Alba’s latest family update is Benjamin Ashfordsweet like honey.

That’s because, as the actress and her husband Cash Warren’s kids—including son Hayes, 6, and daughters Haven, 12, and Honor, 16, grow older—Jessica finds herself trying to hold onto the memories.

“They're so big,” she told E! News ahead of her show Honest Renovations’ Aug. 23 season two premiere. “I think that's the thing that's so wild is like they're just grown. Even though they’re 13 and 16, there's something about that. They're not little babies anymore.” (For more with Jessica and her Honest Renovations cohost Lizzy Mathis, tune into E! News tonight, August 22.)

In fact, Haven and Honor are old enough now that they’ve begun raiding their mother’s wardrobe—as evidenced by their appearance in Jessica’s former red carpet looks for the June 28 screening of their mom’s new Netflix film Trigger Warning.

It was a moment so poignant, that Jessica said, “It brings tears to my eyes.”

But don’t remind the 43-year-old that her oldest is almost approaching high school graduation—“Please don’t say that,” Jessica joked—because after all, she’s still grappling with the fact Honor is old enough to have a drivers license.

“She’s driving, she’s not quite at graduation yet,” the Fantastic Four actress clarified. “She’s gonna be a junior this year. I’m not ready.”

And on that inevitable leaving the nest, Jessica added, “I think that’s gonna be terrible and I’m gonna be sad about it. But she’s such a good girl, I’m so proud of her. She’s awesome.”

But as Jessica and Lizzy—who is also a mom to three—face back-to-school season, they’ve got some tricks up their sleeves to making the transition as smooth as possible.

“Right now it’s chaotic,” Lizzy joked, to which Jessica added, “Yeah right now it’s winding up.”

So to battle the chaos, Jessica said it’s all about building back the routines.

“Like, ‘You can’t sleep in until 11,’” she explained. “Like we gotta wake up at a normal time, we gotta go to bed at a normal time.”

And Lizzy agreed. “That’s probably the hardest part, getting them back into that routine,” she added. “But also prepping your house for back-to-school. Like making sure everything is organized, purging things that you don’t need. Organizing the kitchen, making sure the kids have everything they need, and organizing their rooms.”

As she joked, “Because summer was a free for all, they were in there wilding out in their rooms.”

And for more of Jessica’s sweetest moments with her family, read on.

- Reporting by Emily Curl

The couple appears with daughters Honor and Haven at a screening of Jessica's film Trigger Warning in June 2024.

"Honor wore my @prada dress from the 2007 premier of Valentine's Day in London & Havie wore my @dolcegabbana dress from Comicon for Good Luck Chuck in 2010," the actress wrote on Instagram. "I loooove seeing my girls wear some of my archived pieces and adding their own touch #FashionFriday #flashbackfriday."

Jessica Alba and Cash Warren took their kids Honor, Haven and Hayes on a tropical vacation during Spring Break 2024.

The Sin City actress was joined by her mom Cathy Alba and her three kids on Mother's Day 2024.

The family made the whole place shimmer when they caught Taylor Swift's Eras Tour in Los Angeles August 2023.

Jessica held Hayes' hand during his first day of kindergarten in September 2023.

Cash received sweet smooches from his daughter in this July 2016 snapshot.

"Easter with my mains," Jessica captioned this family snapshot in April 2024. "#HappyEaster."

Jessica and Cash had a roarin' good time with their kids on Halloween 2021, dressing up as lions for Hayes' first time trick-or-treating.

The family had a movie night for Honor's 14th birthday in June 2022.

Cash and his daughters visited Hayes in the hospital after he was born on New Year's Eve 2017. 

Jessica had a girls' night out with her daughters in November 2022, though her son couldn't help but to join in on the photo fun.

The Happiest Place on Earth got a whole lot happier when the family celebrated Hayes' 6th birthday there in January 2024.

"This monster truck and his mechanics are trick-or-treat ready," Jessica wrote on Halloween 2022, sharing a photo of her and Cash's coordinating costumes with Hayes.

Honor celebrated her middle school graduation with her entire family in June 2022.

Jessica marked International Women's Day 2022 with Honor and Haven, writing in part on Instagram, "As a mama of two daughters, I am constantly fighting to leave this world better than I found it - not only for them, but for every single person in the world and for the next generations of girls to come."

The family adopted dogs Dolly and Lucy—short for Lucille and Dolores—in 2022.

Jessica and Warren vamped it up with Honor and Haven in October 2017.

Haven rang in her 5th birthday in 2016 with a tropical themed party.